SRADDHAAYA CHARITAM SRAADDHA - Mahaalaya Pithru Paksham
Frequently asked questions & answers
Mahaalaya Pihru Paksham
Why? What? When? Where? & How?
When to perform a Paksha Sraaddha?
As we approach towards middle
of Bhaadrapada Masam as per Hindu Lunar Calendar, it is time to worship the
departed souls (forefathers). This
worship is held for a period of 15 days during the waning period (dark period)
of Moon in the second fortnight called as Krishna (Bahula) Paksha of Bhaadrapada
Masam that generally occurs during the months of September–October every year. The
period of 15 days starting from Bhaadrapada Bahula Prathama to Bhaadrapada Bahula Amaavaasya is
called Pithru Paksha or Apara Paksha or Paksha Masam when Sun will be transiting
Kanya (Virgo) raasi in the zodiac. This period is totally dedicated and
earmarked for worshiping the departed souls (forefathers).
Why only during this period?
Actually oblation to Pithrus is
prescribed to be performed on a daily basis through Brahma Yagna; through
Shannavathi (96 specific days during a year); during Parva kaala like Uttaraayana;
Dakshinaayana; Eclipse etc; during Pithru Paksha (Bhaadrapada maasam); through
annual ceremony; theertha/kshethra sraaddha etc. Out of which the one during Pithru Paksha is given
greater prominence.
Mahaalaya Pithru Paksha occurs
during Dakshinaayana; also known as Pithraayana Dakshinaayana represents
Pithrus. It is believed that Pithrus
descend on Earth during the period of Dakshinaayana in anticipation of their
progeny perform sacred rites enabling them to attain better placement in other
worlds. Hence, lot of significance is given during this period for performing Pithru
related activities. Pithru Paksha also coincides with Chaaturmaasam
the most sacred period for worshiping both Deities as well as
Pithrus. It is the most auspicious time to pay our obeisance and
salutations to forefathers. Hence, it
is specifically referred to as Pithru Paksha.
It is also called Mahaalaya. Maha means great or big or large.
Laya means destruction. Mahaalaya means great destruction. It is said that
during one of the occasions of Deva-Asura Sangrama (war between Deities and
Demons) large number of Devathas and Rishis had died at the hands of Raakshasas
starting from Bhaadrapada Bahula Prathama (Paadyami) to Amaavaasya. This Mahaalaya
is also called as Sasthrahatha Mahaalaya. These Deities and Rishis are like our
forefathers and it is befitting to worship the departed souls during this
fortnight that coincides with Mahaalaya.
Hence, this period of 15 days has become very sacred and celestial for
performing sacred rites to forefathers.
As per Hindu time element one month for human beings is
equivalent to one day for Pithru Devathas out of which Sukla Paksha (waxing
moon days) 15 days is the day time and Krishna Paksha (waning moon days) 15
days is the night time for Pithrus. It
is believed and said that sacred rites like Thila Tharpana and Pinda Pradhana
(offering of rice balls) performed during Pithru Paksha acts as food for the
departed souls that will be adequate for them throughout the year. Hence, Paksha Sraaddha is required to be performed during dark
fortnight (Krishna Paksha) of Bhaadrapada maasam.
What are the specified days for Paksha sraaddha?
Paksha sraaddha is actually prescribed
to be performed on all the 15 days except on Ekaadasi day. Since it is not
practically possible to perform on all the days; it should at least be
performed for one day preferably on the day corresponding to
the Father’s Thithi (death day). Rest of the days at least, Thila Tharpana
should be given to Sarva Pithru or at least to Dwaadasa Pithru (three
generations on paternal side and three generations on maternal side). On the
day of Mahaalaya Amaavaasya Thila Tharpana should be given to all the eligible
forefathers.
In case a person due to some reason misses to perform the
rituals on the said date; or doesn't know the Father’s death thithi; it can be
performed on any one of the other specified days viz.
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Ashtami; Dwaadasi; on the day
coinciding with Bharani star;
On the day of Vyatheepaatha Yoga;
Mahaalaya Amaavaasya.
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During Krishna Paksha there will be no Pournami thithi. Hence,
for those Pithrus whose thithi (lunar day of death) happens to be Pournami
(full moon day), rites should be performed on any of the other specified
days mentioned above.
If one misses to perform even on any one of the specified days;
still one can perform on any day before Aaswayuja Sukla Panchami. Even
then if it is not possible; still one can perform Paksha Sraaddha on any of the
specified days mentioned above during Thula Masam when Sun is in Thula Raasi
(Libra) before He transits into Scorpio (Vrischika Raasi).
Those performing daily Thila tharpanam or Paksha Sraaddha during
Paksha maasam should perform on all days except Ekaadasi; including Yati
Mahaalaya and Ghaatha Chaturdasi.
When not to perform Paksha Sraaddha?
These ceremonies should not be performed on the day of Ekaadasi
(day of fasting). If father’s death corresponds to Ekaadasi Day; rituals
should be performed on the next day (Dwaadasi) except during Pithru Paksha when
it should be performed on any one of specified days mentioned above other than
Dwaadasi. Also read Yati Mahaalaya
Paksha Sraaddha should not be performed if Pithru thithi
corresponds with Chaturdasi. However it can be performed on any one
of specified days as mentioned above. Performing of Paksha Sraaddha on
Chaturdasi day is earmarked for those who had accidental or unnatural
death. This day is known as Ghaatha
Chaturdasi.
Paksha Sraaddha should not be performed during the period of Asoucha due to birth (janana-asoucha) or
death (marana-asoucha) in family. In such a case it should be performed
only after the period of asoucha on any one of the specified days if possible
during Pithru Paksha or else it should be performed during Thula maasam as said above.
Similarly in case of the deceased; Paksha Sraaddha should not be
performed till completion of one year from the date of death; i.e. during
the Mrutha Varsha (year of death).
When Baadrapada maasam happens to be Adhika maasam?
In case Adhika maasam coincides with Bhaadrapada maasam then,
Mahaalaya Sraaddha that is required to be performed during Krishna Paksha of
Bhaadrapada maasam has to be performed twice; in Adhika maasam as well as
in Nija maasam. While Dharma-Saastra Dharpana of Sri Raghavendra Swamy Mutt,
Mantralayam has affirmed this; Dharma Sindhu differs in this regard. Those who
differ may follow according to their sampradaya.
In case Pithru annual ceremony falls during Paksha Masam!
In such a case Pithru’s annual ceremony has to be performed on
the said day (thithi) and Mahaalaya Sraaddha has to be performed on any one of
the specified days.
Where to perform the Paksha Ceremonies?
As per sacred texts it is suggested to perform Paksha ceremonies
on the banks of sacred rivers or in sacred and celestial places like Gaya,
Kaasi, Prayaaga, Kurukshetra, Naimisharanya, Rameswaram etc. If it is not
possible they should be performed at least in one’s house. But in view of
several practical difficulties and intricacies involved, they are being performed
at various temples and religious mutts specifically meant for that purpose. For
example; all branches of Sri Raghavendra Swamy Mutt; Sri Uttaradi Mutt; Udupi Mutt and
other dhaarmic institutions across the country provide such facilities to the
Karthas.
Who can perform these Ceremonies?
One who is a Dwija (undergone the process of
Upanayana) should start performing these ceremonies, only after the death of
his father. In such a case it should be performed by the son and not by
the daughter. When more sons are available it should be performed by all collectively in case they are staying together; otherwise
individually at their respective places. In case a person doesn't have sons, widow of
the deceased by making a proper sankalpa can get it performed through a
Brahmin.
To whom the ceremonies are to be performed?
The ritual should be addressed or performed only to the deceased
and not to those who are alive; even though they figure in the eligible list.
Apart from one’s kith and kin, it should be performed to one’s Guru, Teacher,
Priest (Purohit), Friend or to any person whom one has come across in life and
from whom has received help. In case father is alive; question of
performing Sraaddha does not arise at all. Similarly in case Mother is alive; Sraaddha should not be performed
to Pitaamahi (paternal grand-mother) and to Prapithaamahi (paternal great
grand-mother); for list of eligible
Pithrus see Annexure below.
How to reckon a particular day as Sraaddha thithi?
Availability of particular thithi that is spread beyond noon
(Aparaannah) is prevailed upon for considering a day as Sraaddha thithi. Sometimes two thithis also occur on the same day. In such a
case, Sraaddha will be performed on the same day for both the thithis. Sraaddha should not be performed on Ekaadasi day. Similarly sometimes there will be Sraaddha Bhaava (non availability
of Sraaddha Thithi); then also Sraaddha should not be performed.
What are the items required for these ceremonies?
Dharbha (Kusa Grass); Cooked Rice; Black Sesame (Thila seeds);
Water; Thulasi leaves; Ghee; Honey; Pavithra (made with Dharbha); Vishnu Paadam
(foot print impression of Lord Vishnu); Kalasha; Panchapaatre; Uddharne; Copper
plate; Poorcha; Areca nuts; Coins; Betel leaves; Plantains (Bananas); Gopichandana,
Yagnopaveetha etc.
How to perform? (Brief about the Ritual & Significance)
"Sraddhaaya charitam Sraaddha"; literally Sraaddha means the one that need to
be conducted with utmost sincerity, attention, care and devotion. While essence
remains same; procedure, customs and rituals may differ from region to region;
according to sampradaya; based on Varnaasrama dharma. Sraaddha should be
performed wearing a ring made with Dharbha called Pavithra.
Strictly speaking Sraaddha has to be performed in the direct
presence (Pratyaksha) of two Brahmins. In view of practical difficulties it is
performed generally with their symbolic presence by using Dharbha called Dharbha Braahmana; one representing Pithru
Devathas called Pithru Braahmana; the other representing Visvedevathas called
Daiva Brahmana. Agni Kaarya will be performed first and then Pithru Kaarya. In
view of intricacies involved in the process; it is better performed under the guidance
and supervision of a learned Purohit who is specially trained for the purpose.
Pindaas are made with cooked rice and mixed with Thila (sesame
seeds); During Pinda Pradhaana; rice balls (Pindaas) are arranged in a specific
order on Vishnu Paada (foot print of Lord Vishnu) kept on Dharbha (Kusa grass).
Left over Anna (cooked rice) after making Pindaas will be treated as Pithru
Prasaada (Pithrusesha). Specification for the size of Pindaas is “Sameepathra Pramaanena” that means it should be of the
size of a Samee tree leaf.
What is the significance of Dharbha; Anna (cooked rice); and Thila?
Dharbha; Thila (black sesame seeds); cooked rice are the three
major items widely used during the rituals. They are highly sacred and
celestial. Dharbha from hair; Thila from the
sweat have surfaced from the body of Lord Vishnu. Dharbha is used for sanctity. Anna (cooked rice) is so sacred and celestial that it is called ParaBrahma Swaroopa; personification of the supreme
Lord Sri ManNaaraayana the primordial person. “Annam ParaBrahma Swaroopam” It is not only
used during Pithru Kaarya; but also during Agni Kaarya while performing several
sacrifices viz. Homa; Yajna etc. Pindaas made with Anna are symbolic
representation of forefathers.
Why & how does Pithrus get satisfied with?
(Pinda Pradhaana & Thila Tharpana)
(Pinda Pradhaana & Thila Tharpana)
It is believed that Pinda
Pradhana (offering of rice balls) and Thila tharpana act as food for the
departed souls. After the death; the soul (praani) will dwell in different Lokas
(worlds) according to its Karma phala. Since we do not know where and in
which Loka forefathers are dwelling; it is prescribed to perform Pithru Yagna
in seven forms (Saptaanna) the ritual being called Chataka Sraaddha.
Seven types are: Vaiswadeva Homa (Agni Kaarya); Braahmana Bhojana; Pinda Pradhaana; Thila
Tharpana; Uchhishta Pinda; Bhoori Bhojana (Anna Daana); Thaamboola+
Dakshine. Pithrus get satisfied if they are;
Ø In Deva Loka with Agni Kaarya
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In Swarga Loka with Braahmana Bhojana
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In Yamaloka (Pithru Loka) with Pinda Pradhaana
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In Naraka Loka with Thila Tharpana (Vikiraanna)
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In Paisachika roopa with Uchhishta Pinda
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In Asura roopa with Bhoori Bhojana (Anna Daana)
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In Human form with Dakshine Thaamboola to Brahmins
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It is believed and said that the rituals performed reach the departed
souls through the rays of Sun God (in Hindu astrology Sun is referred to as the natural Pithru kaaraka); and Vasu, Rudra and Aaditya acting as
intermediaries. During Sraaddha three generations of
fore fathers are identified as Vasu, Rudra and Aaditya, assumed as Pradyumna;
Sankarshana and Vaasudeva forms respectively of Lord Vishnu.
What are other types of Sraaddha?
Type of Sraaddha to be performed depends on one’s (Kartha’s) ability,
patience, age, physical fitness etc. It is prescribed and suggested to perform
this ritual always as Chataka Sraaddha (Saptaanna) as said above which is considered to be sacred and
meritorious. We find people opting other
types of Sraaddha like; Hiranya Sraaddha; Sankalpa Sraaddha etc. according their
convenience. Apart from performing rituals one should also offer Anna
Dana along with Thaamboola + Dakshina at least to five Brahmins on the day
of Pithru Sraaddha.
How to address forefathers while performing ceremonies?
Each Pithru has to be addressed with their name and Gothra. If
one does not know or remember the name and Gothra of forefathers, they should
be spelled as Yagnappa (Male), and Yagnamma (female) and Gothra to be spelled as Kaasyapa Gothra. Male Pithrus are addressed as Sarma and female Pithrus as Dhaam suffixing their names; for
e.g. male as Yagnappa Sarmaanaam and female as Yagnamma Dhaam.
How to dispense with Pindas (rice balls) after the ceremony?
In this regard following tradition is in vogue.
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Feeding to the Crows
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Dropping them in water preferably in a river or a canal
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Feeding to a Cow
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Digging an earth pit and burying them in it
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One of the above may be followed according to convenience. They should not be thrown into garbage.
What should be done when sraaddha could not be performed?
As far as possible don’t avoid performing sacred rites on the
scheduled date or at least on one of the specified days. In a given situation
where, it is not possible to perform Sraaddha due to circumstances beyond one’s
control, one can adopt one of the following...
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Perform Pithru Thila Tharpana;
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Observe fasting on that day;
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Saaka-Paaka Dana to a Brahmin along with Dakshina;
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Feed a Cow with grass; plantains;
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When nothing is possible; pray & offer a sincere
Namaskara.
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What is Mahaalaya?
Pithru Paksha is also called as Mahaalaya. Maha means great or
big or large. Laya means destruction. Mahaalaya means
great destruction. It is said that on one of the
occasions of Deva-Asura Sangraama (war between Deities and Demons) large number
of Devathas and Rishis had died at the hands of Raakshasas starting from
Bhaadrapada Bahula Paadyami to Amaavaasya. It is also known as Sasthrahatha Mahaalaya. These Deities and Rishis are
like our forefathers and it is befitting to worship the departed souls during
the fortnight that coincides with Mahaalaya. Hence, this period of 15 days has
become very sacred and meritorious for performing sacred rites to forefathers.
What is Avidhava Navami?
Vidhava means Widow; Avidhava means not a widow (Sumangali).
Navami is a thithi as per Hindu lunar calendar. Avidhava Navami in the context of Pithru Paksha
is the day on which ceremonies are to be performed for those Women (Mothers)
who died as Sumangali (husband alive). It should be performed by the son (whose
father is alive) on the Navami thithi day during Pithru Paksha and the ritual
is different from regular Paksha Sraaddha.
What is Dauhithru Sraaddha?
Sraaddha performed by a daughter’s son to his maternal grandparents
is known as Dauhithru Karthruka Sraaddha. This is possible only when a person doesn't have a son but has
a daughter; in such a case daughter’s son can perform this ceremony. This is an
exceptional case where, a person (Jeevat Pithru) performs
ceremony when his father is alive. This ceremony is performed
on the first day of the bright fortnight during Aaswayuja Masam.
What is Mahaa-Bharani Sraaddha?
Sraaddha performed on the day coinciding with Bharani star
during Pithru Paksha is known as Mahaa-Bharani
Sraaddha or Bharani Mahaalaya. It is said and believed that it
gives merits equivalent to that of Gaya Sraaddha.
What is Yati Mahaalaya?
Though Dwaadasi is one of the specified days as per Dharma
Sindhu; in practice, we find this day exclusively reserved for Yatis (Ascetics)
called Yati or Sanyaasi Mahaalaya. It is performed by giving Hasthodaka to all those Saints who
have made Brundavana pravesa and by performing Anna Santharpana.
What is Kapila Shashti?
If there is coincidence of Bhaadrapada Maasam; Krishna Paksha; Sun in
Hastha constellation; Moon in Rohini constellation; Shashti thithi; Sunday;
Vyatheepaatha Yoga; that day is known
as Kapila Shashti. Any charity, worship, homa, sacred rites performed on this day
is said to be highly meritorious.
What else can be done during Pithru Paksha?
People visit Theertha Kshethras like Kaasi, Prayaaga (Triveni
Sangam) and Gaya (Pithru Kshethra) for performing Pithru ceremonies during
Paksha maasam. At Gaya Kshethra there will be a big rush during this fortnight
of Mahaalaya Pithru Paksha.
Garuda Purana can be read (Paaraayana) or
listened to during Pithru Paksha. One can also sponsor for Pravachana (talk) of
Garuda Purana in any temple or mutt during Pithru Paksha.
One can donate Black Sesame seeds (Thila); Rice; or any other
material/s like Ghee, Honey, Thulasi, used for performing Pithru ceremonies to
any temple or mutt organizing or conducting these ceremonies. Performing Anna
Dana during Pithru Paksha is highly sacred and meritorious.
Why should
one perform Pithru Sraaddha??? - Glory of Mahalaya Pithru Paksham
After knowing these rituals to be performed and intricacies involved
one may get a doubt as to why should one perform Pithru sraaddha?
Maathru Devo Bhava; Pithru
Devo Bhava; Aachaarya Devo Bhava; Athithi Devo Bhava; Worshipping
these four categories is given highest significance and importance in Hindu
Dharma. Among the four, Mathru (Mother) and
Pithru (Father) Aachaarya (Guru) have attained greater prominence since they
are the people who are responsible for our birth,
culture (samskaara) and existence. They are the one who have
contributed for our welfare and growth; they are our friends; philosophers and
guides; they are our mentors and our role models. Maata-Pithru seva (serving
parents) when they are alive and performing Pithru Yagna after their departure
has been prescribed as the best way to get discharged from Pithru Runa. For more information on glory of Mahaalaya Pithru Paksham please
click on the link given below…
Why should
one perform Pithru Sraaddha??? - Glory of Mahalaya Pithru Paksham
Sri Krishnaarpanamasthu
For related posts please click on the links given below...
AMAAVAASYA - The Pithru Thithi
Mahaalaya Amaavaasya - Tharpana Vidhi
Garuda Purana - Glory & Significance
Annexure
Sarva Pithru list & how to address them during Thila Tharpana and or Pinda
Pradhaana
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Relationship
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How to address a Pithru? (Asmath)
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Relationship
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How to address a Pithru? (Asmath)
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Father
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Pitharam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Brother/s
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Bhraatharam
TatthPathneem
Tatthputhram
(Vasu Roopa)
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Grand Father (Paternal)
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Pithamaham
(Rudra Roopa)
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Paternal
Uncles’
(Father’s
Brothers)
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Pithravyam
TatthPathneem
Tatthputhram
(Vasu
Roopa)
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Great Grand Father (Paternal)
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Prapithaamaham
(Aaditya Roopa)
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Maternal Uncles’
(Mother’s Brothers)
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Mathulam
Tattpatneem
TatthPuthram
(Vasu Roopa)
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Mother
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Maatharam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Daughter
(self)
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Duhitharam
(Vasu
Roopa)
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Paternal Grand
Mother
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Pithaamahim
(Rudra Roopa)
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Son-in-law
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Jaamaatharam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Paternal Great Grand Mother
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Prapithamahim (Aaditya Roopa)
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Grand
son (Daughter’s son)
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Dauhithram
(Vasu
Roopa)
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Step Mother
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Saapatni Maatharam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Sister/s
(self)
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Bhagineem
(Vasu Roopa)
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Maternal Grand Father (Mother’s
father)
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Maathamaham (Vasu Roopa)
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Brother–in-law
(Sister’s
husband)
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Bhaavukam
(Vasu
Roopa)
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Maternal Great Grand
Father (Mother’s paternal Grand
father)
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Maathu Pithamaham
(Rudra Roopa)
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Sister’s children
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Bhaagineyakam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Maternal Great Great Grand Father
(Mother’s Great Grand Father)
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Maathu- Prapithaamaham (Aaditya
Roopa)
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Paternal
Aunts
(Father’s
sister/s)
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Pithruswasa
(Pithru
Bhagineem)
TattBhartharam
TattPuthram
(Vasu
Roopa)
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Maternal Grand Mother (Mother’s Mother)
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Maathaamahim (Vasu Roopa)
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Maternal
Aunt/s
(Mother’s
sister/s)
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Maathruswasa
(Mathru
Bhagineem)
TattBhartharam
TattPuthram
(Vasu
Roopa)
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Maternal Great
Grand Mother (Mother’s paternal Grand Mother)
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Maathu Pithamahim
(Rudra Roopa)
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Father-in-law
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Swasuram
(Vasu Roopa)
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Maternal Great Great Grand
Mother (Mother’s paternal Great Grand Mother)
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Maathu- Prapithaamahim (Aaditya
Roopa)
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Mother-in-law
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Swasruh
(Vasu Roopa)
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Wife
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Pathneem
(Vasu Roopa)
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Brother-in-law
(Wife’s brother/s)
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Syaalakam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Son/s
(self)
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Sutham
(Vasu Roopa)
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Gaayathri
upadesa Guru
(One
who has performed Gaayathri Upadesa)
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Gurum
(it
could be Father
or
any other
Aachaarya)
(Vasu Roopa)
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Daughter–in-law
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Snushaam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Vidya Guru; teacher; purohit; priest
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Aachaaryam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Disciple
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Sishya
(Vasu Roopa)
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Friend
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Sakhaayam
(Vasu Roopa)
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Above list is also useful while
performing Kshethra (theertha) Sraaddha, while giving Tharpana during Parva Kaala
(Eclipse; Uttaraayana; Dakshinaayana) and during regular Amaavaasya Tharpana.
What a wonderful article about this most important fornight with various details which I call the real spiritual Seva.
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May God bless you Sir ..nicely written articles with lucid understanding and devotion.
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